Likewise, sex therapists tell me they’ve met a number of straight men who’ve had sugar daddies. Forums like Let’s Talk Sugar actually have a standard term for men like him: gay-for-pay sugar babies. Likewise, Maren Scull, a leading sugar dating academic, says that neither she nor any other scholars she’s aware of have studied male sugar babies’ demographics or behaviors, so it’s impossible to say how prevalent this sort of dynamic is.īut dig into the bowels of the internet and you’ll find many tales like Hal’s. Even insiders like Kimberly De La Cruz, a spokesperson for Seeking Arrangement, one of the biggest sugar dating sites, tells me she’s never heard of an arrangement like Hal’s. It can be hard for some people to wrap their heads around the idea of a straight man with a sugar daddy. Except for one detail, that is: Both Hal and his friend are, as he puts it, “pretty much 100 percent hetero. This is a pretty archetypal sugar dating story, down to the sums Hal earned every month. “It was a little for someone making millions.” “At the time, $500 was a lot for me,” Hal, a pseudonym, recalls.
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Though his description paints this daddy as demanding and not always pleasant to be around, those dates usually ended in sex. He made an account on a purposefully unspecified sugar dating site, and found a guy who was willing to pay him $500 per date, on the condition that they’d chat regularly and see each other once a week.
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He’d been struggling to make ends meet while searching fruitlessly for a job, so as a fairly handsome and fit man, he figured he’d give it a try. This friend, a man who dated both sugar daddies and mommies, made sugaring sound like “a way to make easy money.” That appealed to Hal, then in his mid-20s and fresh out of a stint in the military. In 2016, Hal learned that one of his friends was a sugar baby, someone who goes out with usually older and wealthier individuals in exchange for gifts or regular allowances.